Domination &
Topping
General
Academies & Other Places
Articles
So, You Want to Be a Dominant, on the BDSM Training Academy
Books
Dom’s Guide To Submissive Training: Step-by-step Blueprint On How To Train Your New Sub. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship, by Elizabeth Kramer—there are 2 more books in this series too
The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships, by Anton Fulmen
Femdom for Nice Girls: A Self-Guided Manual for the Caring Mistress, by Lucy Fairbourne
The Heart of Dominance: a guide to practicing consensual dominance
The (New and Improved) Loving Dominant, by John Warren and Libby Warren
The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Yes, Mistress: Why Men Crave Female Domination, by Alicia Zadig
FetLife Groups
Dominance and submission (All Things Discussion)
Dominant Men Who Like Submissive Women With Dominant Personalities
Female Dominants and Submissives
Videos
Defining Levels of Protocol, on Kink Academy (free)
Dispelling Myths About Dominant Women, on Kink Academy (free)
Male Domwear, part 1, on Kink Academy (free)
Soft Dominance 101 | BDSM Basics, by Ms. Elle X
Tips for a New Dominant (D/s advice), by Desires Laid Bare
The TOP TEN New Dominant Mistakes in BDSM (and how to avoid them), by Evie Lupine
The Truth About Dom/sub Relationships (from a 24/7 slave!), by Desires Laid Bare
Financial Domination
Articles
Financial Domination — What Is It About?, on Modern Intimacy
Financial Domination — collection of articles on Vice
Books
#AfroDomme Diary: understanding financial domination as a luxury black dominatrix, by Ekua Ahima
Financial Domination 101: How To Be A Successful Financial Domme, by Goddess Jessica
FetLife Groups
Q. Aren’t domination and topping the same thing?
A. Nope. Topping is mostly just about doing stuff to someone, while domination demands a partner who wants to please you.