Disclaimer: I can’t vouch for the ethics or practices of some of these, and definitely not of the people you might meet on them. Always use care with any app or website that connects you with people, and don’t send money to people you don’t know.

General

FetLife.com: Has many groups specifically for singles looking to meet people, as well as supportive groups for all kinds of kinks and types of kinksters. In the FetLife search field, just type in “[Your City] Kinky Classifieds [or Personals],” “[Your City] Hookups,” “[Your City] Kinksters [or Singles] , etc.

Plura: app for parties, workshops, munches, and other events

ForbiddenTickets: Find both online classes and events and in-person ones around the country

Feeld: dating app for “the open-minded community”

Kinkoo: “helps kinky people find like-minded kinksters”

BDSM.com: more for hookups

Fetish.com: dating and community

Specialty

Cougar Life: “connects modern, confident women with energetic younger men”

DailyDiapers.com: “premiere community for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Big Kids, Mommies and Daddies”

Find Spanking Partners: self-explanatory

Heels Dating: for high heel fetishists and foot lovers

Ladyboy Kisses: international site to connect with ladyboys and shemales

Local Cuckold: for cuckold and hotwife dating

Strapon Dating: for strap-on hookups

Mainly Vanilla Dating Sites

(But you can find kinky people too)

Bumble

Hinge

Match

OKCupid

Tinder

Mainly Vanilla Social Media

(But you can find kinky people too)

Instagram

Facebook

Snapchat

TikTok

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Online & Apps